The reality of Valentine's Day despite the marketing pressure for romantic perfection is as long as you're both enjoying yourselves, you and your partner have got it worked out. If you're still looking to add a little extra heat to your February 14th, we have 9 tips stat to take your bedroom game to the next level.
1. Change things up with some roleplay
The roleplay you choose is only limited by your imagination. An easy place to start is plan to meet at a bar, introduce yourself when your partner happens to sit right next to you. Let the evening play out however you feel with the both of you using completely different occupations and names.
2. Incorporate the foods you love.
Have dessert in the kitchen, no bowls allowed, who said dessert has to be served at the dinner table? Or take dessert to the bedroom. Take ice cream, whipped cream, or a sweet treat into the bedroom. Serve it on you and your partner, and you will have the best tasting dessert you could ask for. You could try these;
3. Make sex the first course.
Why save the fun for last? Think about it a few glasses of wine, dinner, dessert and before you know it is midnight – that does not always equal energy for passionate sex. So have sex before you leave for your date instead and spend the rest of the meal basking in a sexy afterglow. You can always have sex again afterward if you are still buzzing from your romantic date. Bonus!
4. Good Morning
Don't put too much pressure on yourself for sex to be a must happen on Valentine's Day. If it doesn't naturally happen, that's OK!
How delightfully delicious would it be to roll over the next morning and whispering all the things you wish you had done last night into your partner's ear. Enjoy!
5. Buy each other one new sexy item for the bedroom
You could buy a sex toy, massage oil or even a blindfold and soft rope. A massage oil candle or a new vibrating cock ring that can double as a finger vibrator, like Tor2 by Lelo, perhaps? If your hope is to shake things up commit to both bringing one new thing to the bedroom.
6. Have fun!
If romance and candlelight is not your thing, why not try going for something fun over romance. Try an activity that focuses on togetherness and fun. Go bowling, see a movie, see a concert, have a laugh. Doing things like this can equal feeling more connected which in turn can inspire sex over the full belly after a four-course dinner.
7. Gift for both
If you really want to go all-in, lingerie is a great choice. Ask your partner to write down down their size or even get them to give you a list of items they would like wear for you - or visa versa. It's a gift for both of you.