Morning sex can be a great way to start your day.
When you think about the timing of sex do you think night time or bedtime? If you do, then you are not alone. Morning sex can be a great way to start your day. It can be even more enjoyable first thing in the morning.
Even if you’re usually slow to wake up or the thought of having sex doesn’t sound all that interesting believe it or not you are still likely to feel great after actually having sex in the morning. Remember sex helps us feel more connected to ourselves and our partners; it releases feel good hormones, improves our mood and relaxes us.
Logistically morning sex is amazing. You wake up rested and relaxed not having just come home all stressed and tired. If you sleep naked well it is easy and if you sleep in PJ’s they are easy to take off. Last but not least it is easy to clean up with a shower to start your day.
Logistically morning sex is amazing. You wake up rested and relaxed not having just come home all stressed and tired.
So, it may pay to set your alarm a few minutes earlier. You may be saying I am not waking up any earlier than I have to, no, no, no! Really what is 10 or 15 mins earlier when it can have fantastic benefits no exercise necessary.
Need more reasons for morning sex;
Here is how to have fantastic morning sex;
1. Scheduling sex
Scheduling sex makes some people cringe, but we schedule other things in life that are important to us so why not sex. So, don’t be afraid to schedule morning quality time with each other. Even if on a particular morning you decide not to have sex there are still benefits to be had – like a few minutes of relaxed quality time with each other.
2. Quickies
Quickies can be great during the workweek if you only have a few minutes to spare. How best works for you in a quickie is the best way to approach that.
3. Surprise
Surprise your partner by waking them with a kiss their neck or sneak your hands down the sheets. Please remember that you should only do this if your partner's prior consent – another reason to have regular chats about sex, or you miss out on goodies like morning sex.
4. Dreams
Tell your partner that you were having a sexy dream about them.
5. Save Water
Join your partner in the shower, save water, enjoy being naked together then, you can brush your teeth and wake up a bit before you jump back into bed to finish things off. That is of course if shower sex isn’t your thing.
6. Shared pleasure
Try masturbating next to each other for something different. Toys are optional, toys for you or your partner, but usually lots of fun.
7. Put your phone away
Resist the urge to check your phone first thing. Say hello to your partner first and spend a few minutes cuddling and kissing. Even just a cuddle and good morning kiss will be the start to a far better morning then checking your phone first. Partner and connection first, phone and the rest of the world later.
8. Ladies, lubricant is your friend.
Ladies, lubricant is your friend. Even when feeling horny first thing in the morning some women can find getting wet a slow process. That is OK just keep a bottle of quality lubricant in your bedside table, easy fix.
9. Morning breath
Morning breath, if that bothers you don’t use it as an excuse not to have sex when it is really an easy fix. Keep a package of breath strips in your bedside table. You can both use them, quick and easy then you can enjoy kissing, cuddling and morning sex.
10. Or you can
- Do things that don’t require you to kiss, like oral sex or mutual masturbation.
- Kiss other parts like necks and ears.
- Make no kissing on the mouth a sex game, it can be surprisingly hot to be forbidden from doing something.
- Try spooning or doggy style, no kissing in those positions unless you are a contortionist.
- Morning breathe is not a huge deal, come on you both have it we all do. Once you get into the moment and enjoying each other you will not notice it.
11. Sleepy sex
Sleepy sex is awesome on the weekends, or days that you have a little extra time. Try an easy position like spooning.
Morning sex is a fun topic to discuss with your partner if you haven’t already. The Bliss Journal has lots of articles that discuss how to communicate things like this with your partner.
